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Qwiss This is factually incorrect. I personally know plenty of women who have experienced this and have a huge problem with it. Many of those women have experienced sexual assault at some point in their lives, perpetrated of course by men. They therefore want certain spaces for themselves where they don't have to worry about biological males being present. Whether this is fully rational or not is not that relevant. This is not hard to understand.

On the other hand, it is also not hard to understand that trans people are a marginalised group and many of them have been denied the right to basic care all their lives. Also, the vast majority of them obviously aren't just men pretending to be women so they can enter bathrooms. It shouldn't be hard to come to a consensus that fairly weighs all interests against each other. However that requires parties to jump off their moral high horse, and that is not going to happen any time soon. The replies to this post will surely underline that once again.

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    Gurgen There is no greater gift for today's fascists than the modern left.

    I think its "centrists" like yourself who enable them that give them far more than those who outright oppose them.

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      Coombs Those aren't human rights I'm familiar with, nor do I think they're being abridged even if they were.

      Good for you but clearly a lot of women, the people who actually have to use those spaces of play in those sports feel differently.

      QuincyAbeyie Responses like that make me pretty confident that people on the right don't even really care about women's rights. It's just a tool they use.

      Yes because I am guessing those people who say trans women should be able to compete in girls sports or even their private spaces definitely care about women's rights.

      Qwiss Why does that matter?

      Because those spaces are exclusively for biological women, for the reasons Gurgen sets out.

      Kel Varnsen I think it is fantastic that the left push the trans issue. Really helps the right win elections.

      Some simply can't see it, unbelievable really. From my eyes only allowing biological girls in girls sports isn't even a 50/50 issue.

      Gurgen On the other hand, it is also not hard to understand that trans people are a marginalised group and many of them have been denied the right to basic care all their lives. Also, the vast majority of them obviously aren't just men pretending to be women so they can enter bathrooms. It shouldn't be hard to come to a consensus that fairly weighs all interests against each other. However that requires parties to jump off their moral high horse, and that is not going to happen any time soon. The replies to this post will surely underline that once again.

      Sounds completely sensible to me. I've always said we should not marginalise any community and look to work out a sensible solution. Giving them access into womens spaces is not that solution.

      awooga83 hey don't, musk on Twitter abusing Jess Phillips a UK MP who has been working and raising awareness on issues about women's safety for years while musk has done f all and not bothered to fund anything in that regard but was happy to attack her as a witch and complicit in abuse

      No doubt Jess Phillips has done a lot for womens safety while working for Women's Aid but when she got into power and could have made a real change for those affected by grooming gangs after being asked to do so by a council she does what most politicians before her did, fobs off the issue. The abuse towards her is clearly wrong but she needs to be called out for her actions. It is also quite clear why these full inquiry is not being done as well.

      Burnwinter As I was sort of alluding to above, in the past homosexuality used to meet with this sort of mentality.

      If a sensible solution is found trans people will also find acceptance and I hope we get there. But clearly what is being suggested now is not acceptable to many women so we should work out a solution. Rather than branding people as TERFs and all sorts if they speak up.

        JazzG Because those spaces are exclusively for biological women, for the reasons Gurgen sets out.

        You are just repeating that it should be that way. You are yet to explain why it should be that way.

          Gurgen However, as evidenced by the reactions there is no room for any nuance - anyone who disagrees even slightly with the woke mantra is a bigot etc.

          Nuance, eh. "Equal pay for equal work! ... except if she's not very good at her job." "Well, I do agree some cops are bastards, but ..." "We are demanding eight hours in the working day, unless you're an air traffic controller: in that case we're not comfortable unless there are shorter shifts to prevent fatigue."

          Give me a mantra. Nuanced and generous private dialogues are earnt when you fight on the right side. We all have things we can't be nuanced about.

            Gurgen Whether this is fully rational or not is not that relevant.

            Of course it is relevant. If I've been abused by someone, I shouldn't create laws saying that people who I deem to be "like my abuser" aren't allowed in certain spaces with me and should all have reduced rights. That is bigoted, prejudiced, and evil. It's not right for a Palestinian to hate all jews just as it's not right for women who have experienced abuse to be transphobic.

            This is classic case of men using perceived threats to [their] women as an excuse to control and abridge the rights of anyone who isn't like them from a moral high horse.

            Why won't anyone think of the women? they cry, as they rape, kill, and force women into reproductive labor.

            It's not any justification that some women are complicit in this.

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            JazzG But clearly what is being suggested now is not acceptable to many women so we should work out a solution.

            To what? And why the very exclusive focus on women? I know two transmasc teens and only one trans girl (all kids of friends of mine).

            There are probably fewer elite trans woman athletes in the United States than there are school shootings every year. It's all rot. There's no pattern of public bathroom assaults either.

            JazzG Rather than branding people as TERFs and all sorts if they speak up.

            Speak up about what? Anything happened to you lately?

            When a trans woman speaks about herself people bleat "biological male" then expect everyone to give them a golf clap for it. Ironic this fantasy of the "woman being silenced and having her rights infringed" is so central to the justification.

            "Rape, Racism and the Myth of the Black Rapist" by Angela Davis (a chapter of WOMEN, RACE AND CLASS) is worth a read. It discusses the pragmatic aspects of fantasising about the threat of some outsider in this way. This is a way of disciplining part of the community and rationalising the collective spectacle of punishment.

              Qwiss You are just repeating that it should be that way. You are yet to explain why it should be that way.

              I'm not really sure what to say here, it is pretty self explanatory why only women should be allowed into women spaces.

              Burnwinter Speak up about what? Anything happened to you lately?

              Speak up about biological men being in their spaces. Those who did were shouted down or isolated for their views. Nothing is gonna happen to me, I don't really give a shit what people think about me or my opinions

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                Ok we have a difference of opinion on the womens sports, surely this is something we can all get behind right?

                We need to get him to apply some diplomatic pressure and ban those fucking caps that don't come off bottles as well. Another one of my pet hates.

                I suspect one could track your pet hates, do the opposite, and have a highly rational set of policies.

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                It doesn't really matter what I think of Trump, the American people have elected him on his policies. Whether they are rational or not is sometimes down to your point of view. Whereas for example his Gaza views are quite clearly irrational whereas some of his other policies are completely logical.

                I do not like this current Labour government at all but when they do the right things I will say so. I get the impression some people find that difficult with Trump.

                  JazzG
                  Going back to plastic straws is a small thing compared to the Gaza nonsense, but it is objectively awful.
                  It is true that my fellow citizens elected him, by a small but decisive margin.
                  It is also true that he is wrong about everything. Everything. There is not a single thing he is right about.

                    JazzG

                    JazzG I'm not really sure what to say here, it is pretty self explanatory why only women should be allowed into women spaces.

                    I'm not sure if you're doing it on purpose or not, but nobody disagrees with you on this. But trans women are women.

                      JazzG No doubt Jess Phillips has done a lot for womens safety while working for Women's Aid but when she got into power and could have made a real change for those affected by grooming gangs after being asked to do so by a council she does what most politicians before her did, fobs off the issue. The abuse towards her is clearly wrong but she needs to be called out for her actions. It is also quite clear why these full inquiry is not being done as well.

                      But this is the point I was raising, Musk is the one who attacked her saying she was a witch. (With all the baggage that comes with that) And saying she was complicit in abuse given her history and Musk's I think there is only one person who has a proven record of being invested in women's safety issues. Do you therefore condemn musk and accept he's abusing these issues not because he cares about safety and women's issues (his record of action would say otherwise) but that he wants to attack people he ideologically opposes including women? And presumably if you accept that you can see why people don't believe a president who talked about grabbing women has any intention to protect women right?

                      What is a woman? Is it an idea? A feeling?

                      flobaba I'm not sure how to answer the question. In my experience,, people who say "Trans women aren't women", like you, actually just mean "trans women who don't wear enough makeup or haven't enough physical procedures to look like a conventional woman, aren't women".

                      Edit: Lol indeed. Was drunk and forgot the term cis woman.

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                      Lol, it was a simple question. How is a "trans"- woman a woman? I mean, a man doesn't become a woman just because he puts on a bunch of make up or /and have some surgical procedures, and dresses up in women's clothes... Or what am I missing here?

                        And lol at "conventional" woman.

                        flobaba You are not missing anything, a trans woman is not a woman. And to make things even worse some think that anyone who says otherwise is a bigot or transphobe.

                        RowJimmy It is also true that he is wrong about everything. Everything. There is not a single thing he is right about.

                        Don't think this personally but that attitude is why Trump is the president. I've got family in America who voted for Biden last time and this time switched to Trump and they don't even like Trump but could not stand what the Democrats have become. Your view there seems to be held by the Democrat party as well.

                        Fetterman gets it.

                          JazzG it’s hard to absorb any of this when the alternative is to be led by

                          • convicted felon - for falsifying business records in connection with an extramarital affair with a porn actress
                          • twice impeached
                          • charged with conspiracy for January 6 attack that led to 5 deaths
                          • all the sexual assault stuff

                          I could give this stuff credibility if the chosen one was a saint. Not this cretin.

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                            Claudius Which why I've said before this wasn't even a difficult election for the Democrats to win. They decided to go with someone who was senile in Biden and when he was forced to drop out they decided to go with Kamala...

                            Some of those charges bought against him were seen to be politically motivated by the electorate, I don't really know as I haven't followed the cases in that detail but some of the stuff coming out by the AGs did seem like they were out to get him. Some of those involved on the Jan 6 all got last minute pardons on the way out from Biden, that imo only adds credibility to the view that the charges have a political element to them.

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                            Here in the UK the vibe shift is real as well, this coming from someone says JK Rowling is wrong and that a woman can have a penis. Rosie Duffield was ostracized by the Labour party for supporting JK Rowling and her views.

                            JazzG You are not missing anything, a trans woman is not a woman. And to make things even worse some think that anyone who says otherwise is a bigot or transphobe.

                            Ever been friends with anyone before and after they transitioned with hormone therapy and surgery?

                              Burnwinter so you determine who is on “the right side” and only then do you engage in good faith or even consider an opinion that is contrary to yours? I guess that’s very admirable. I personally have trouble telling right from wrong infallibly on every single moral and political issue in the world, but I am glad there are people out there who don’t.

                                Qwiss you of course have proof of me “enabling” them and not “opposing” them right? Didn’t realise you’d been following me around with a film crew in the last few years.

                                  Gurgen so you determine who is on “the right side”

                                  Don't come the raw prawn as they say.

                                  We've exchanged views for years. Many times you've agreed and disagreed with me without a hint of nuance. Most times you express yourself with perfect confidence you're "on the right side". And that's normal. You've got a problem with me doing it? Physician, heal thyself.

                                  Burnwinter think you guys all know I used to be involved with the Daily Cannon website.

                                  My one contribution, such as it is, to this debate is Lee - the guy who runs the site - used to be an angry Irish lesbian called Leanne. Having realised he was actually a man in a woman's body, he transitioned around 10-12 years ago. Once he transitioned, everyone accepted him for who he now was, an angry trans man. I don't see why this should be any different the other way round.

                                    RocktheCasbah I've had three friends transition over the last twenty years or so ... three fairly complicated people, two women and one man. Today, they are all happier and more fulfilled than once they were, leading imperfect lives like the rest of us.

                                    Just three anecdotes, but it induces vertigo to think of these cases while reading anti-trans preoccupations about bathroom intrusions and elite sports.

                                    That stuff is just not at all in the picture for these people. I'm talking about an art gallery curator, software developer and a rural high school teacher, neither upsetting anyone nor infringing anyone's rights.

                                    When you observe someone transition you see that "biological sex" is very far from static, binary and immutable. Tip different hormones into an adult body and, subject to many limits of course, that body's expression plastically changes.

                                    That's nothing simple, but it's likely to keep on going because of hormones becoming a commodity. In the words of the recently deceased David Lynch, "fix your hearts or die".

                                    If you want a real, proper social problem to worry about, may I recommend crystal meth addiction and psychosis. I'd be perfectly happy to man the barricades with a few wingnuts if it would keep that shit away from my communities.

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                                      Burnwinter When you observe someone transition you see that "biological sex" is very far from static, binary and immutable.

                                      Biology in general. It turns out we modify ourselves all the time. Men taking testosterone isn't "natural," either, but it goes far beyond that. We are born into what Derrida called the prosthetic already-there. We are technical beings at the instant we are human, modified, extended, and reduced by the pharmakon of the nonhuman upon which our humanity is predicated. The skin barrier is porous, and the narrative of a pure, natural, organismic unity is a myth that defies all logic and, yes, even the so-called common sense logics that govern antitrans discourses.

                                      No more skin grafts, no more hair plugs. No more literature, because it's not natural unless you can remember. No more vaccines, no more skateboards. Kill all knowledge, because only ignorance is compatible with nature.

                                      You guys are so elite eh?

                                        I don't understand. A man in a woman's body.

                                        Like, that's the point where it ceases to make sense to simple minded folks like me.

                                          flobaba In a few years time people are gonna look back at this and be like what the actual fuck was going on. Especially with the mutilation of kids, that is worst of all this. When someone is an adult they can do whatever makes them happy but leave the kids out of this.

                                          Burnwinter I don't know anyone and I don't think it is relevant nor would I change my views. I do know of a man who transitioned into a woman. I'm happy for your friends and wish them all their best. But they are trans women are not women. They are trans women and there is nothing with that.

                                          Mutilation of which kids?

                                            Claudius Yeah exactly the type of response I expected. What kids, who are these kids you talk of.

                                              JazzG you brought up mutilsted kids, mate. I we are just curious for the facts.

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                                              Cass review in the UK found the evidence for puberty blockers and hormone therapy to be remarkably weak yet in some countries we have kids being operated on. Irreversible surgeries being done on kids without strong evidence, that is experimental surgery and mutilation in my eyes. Breast binders being sent out in discreet packaging to under-aged kids in this country without parental consent. Irreversible and we already have high profile cases like Chloe Cole coming out talking about their regrets.

                                              Once they are an adult, whatever path they go down they should be supported.

                                              @JazzG @flobaba Look mates, there's nothing elite or rarefied about my life experiences. I've been moving through a pretty normal Australian sphere. I'm not a private school kid, a trust fund kid, an academic at an elite university, etc.

                                              But I do know quite a few trans people and as far as my humdrum acquaintance goes, the stuff that is said by conservatives is factually way, way off the mark. It is false and damaging.

                                              I'd say I'm the simple soul who doesn't maintain a lot of complex ideas based on nothing about this.

                                              The debate over whether trans women are women, or trans lives are human lives is over in Australia from a civic and social perspective. Trans women live legally as women after transition and lots of paperwork, go to work as women, etc. Nobody stopped that train here. I reckon that's because real trans people are leading unexceptional lives that don't look like anyone's lurid headlines.

                                              There are substantial social and political issues associated with trans identity here, but none is caused by any pattern of trans people being socially malevolent or dangerous that anyone can point to. Just imagine how much we'd hear about it if they could!

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                                              The debate may be settled in Australia, but it's obviously not settled in many other places in the world. Gender fluidity is not as accepted a proposition as you might believe. Interesting that you've met and got close to so many considering their rarity. I've met one. He was cool. Wifey's friend and work colleague. Had a fiancee and everything. But he is a woman. Surgery, hormones. Still a woman. He did not grow up having a boy/man's experiences, and he is not biologically male. These are facts, right? I can't just wake up one morning and say I think I'm a woman, can I? And then project my thinking and beliefs into other people's realities. It's just you know, silly.

                                              Oh, and what if I'm trans woman today. Can I decide in like 3 years that eh, been there done that, and go back to being a man? What would I be then? A trans untrans? Retrans? Food for thought.