Tell me about it, there is something seriously wrong when a girl waiting in the bed has to go sleep because her boyfriend can't get out of one website because the other guy posting from the other end of the world says something bad about his favourite player, good old times!
As for Ramsey, think a lot of things that have been said about him on here make a lot of sense. He'll be a big player one day and isn't really that far but at the moment, just a couple of months after Fabregas left, he was given a role which he quite obviously can't handle and if there is one person responsible for that, it's Wenger for playing him too much and not Ramsey for not being there yet. But then again, it's quite difficult when two players who should be ahead of him have been injured for too long!
Things might chance when Wilshere is back, hopefully for the good of both of them.