Qwiss agree with you about how disconnected we look.
As for the Newcastle goal, yes you can say Gordon has too much time to measure the cross, but once he puts it in, it's a great ball - from my point of view and time playing football - it's exactly the kind of ball if you put in, you're disappointed if someone doesn't do what Isaak did. Joe Cole just called it "undefendable", your mileage on that may vary, but I'm not sure you can be too critical of Gabriel in this instance.