Man marking and kicking isn't the same thing, Gurgen.
About ruining the game as a spectacle, well, personally I find Barcelona's defenders passing the ball around for 30 minutes no less irritating than a team that packs ten players in front of the penalty area. Not to mention that Madrid was, like us at Camp Nou, really starting to come out of their shell(dominating even), before the sending off. So it wasn't like they were parking the bus or anything.