RowJimmy It's not that cups don't matter.
The question is, would you rather have an 89 point season with 28 wins, +62 GD, but no cup, or a 60 point season with 18 wins and -1 GD (i mean, holy shit, negative GD) but the FA cup.
I'd much rather have our season. I really don't know what to say to someone who thinks otherwise.
Think it depends on how you frame the question. Whether it is judging the success of the season in isolation ignoring how it sets you up for future seasons, or judging the season on how strongly you complete it so that even if it ends up trophyless there is positivity for what you can achieve in the following years.
Objectively speaking Man United have had success this season by winning one of the three main competitions we want to win. City win the other. And a foreign team will win the last one. Fuck the League Cup because aside from City, no one really gives a shit about it.
That said I wouldn't want to swap positions with them because we are primed for the next few years to do really well whereas they are pretty much fucked all over the pitch and in the changing rooms.
Let them have their success this week, whilst it may mean bragging rights for them because they actually won something, I'd rather be in our position for what it means going forwards.