It doesn't have to be toxic to be genuinely competitive. The problem is that getting dropped doesn't mean anything, losing has no consequences, contracts rule the day, and everyone believes that comfort is not only deserved, but some kind of right. You'd have to be a fucking philosopher to find any value other than money in the game. Philosophers these guys are not.
I'm frankly stunned at the level of performance we've displayed in these games. It's nothing to do with tactics, I'm certain of that. They're way overblown anyway. I woke up this morning disgusted and depressed, because I feel this part of my life slipping away and I'm terrified of having to replace it, because it'll probably just be with more work. I really hope Arteta is replaced and the new guy can create some reason to love this club - or at least the team - because I'm finding this entirely unbearable. 3 coaches have produced the same feeling, so I'm less and less convinced it's a coaching problem.